WELCOME TO THE CHAOS — AND THE CONVERSATION
Hey there, I’m Ashley Jo — and if you’ve somehow stumbled onto this corner of the internet, buckle up. You’ve officially entered a space where real talk, laughter, and a whole lot of unfiltered honesty collide.
This isn’t just another store. It’s a safe, bold, often hilariously awkward space built by someone who knows exactly what it’s like to navigate life, love, chronic illness, trauma, and… intimacy… all at once.
SO, WHO AM I REALLY?
Let me tell you a little bit more about myself… because I’m an open book, and I don’t believe in sugarcoating life.
Most days, I wake up forgetting that I’m 37 — until I try to move, and reality (and a few cracking joints) smacks me in the face. I’m a proud fur mama and a soon-to-be wife, and I fully believe that laughter is the best medicine. If you can’t laugh at the stupid, ridiculous little things in life… what’s the point?
I’m everything that comes with being a ginger — fiery personality, stubborn streak, passionate temper — but also a huge heart. I’m the person who’ll give you the shirt off my back or the last dollar in my wallet if you need it. Once you’re in my circle — whether you’re family, a customer, a friend, or someone I’ve just met with good energy — I’ll advocate for you fiercely.
I spent nearly two decades in the medical field as a CNA, including nursing school, hospice care, and working in hospitals. That experience taught me a lot about people, compassion, and how fragile life really is.
When I’m not working, you’ll probably find me at the coast, camping, or obsessing over the snow (rain? Not so much). I binge-watch the same shows and movies over and over — Doctor Who, The Tudors, anything royal-family related — because I love them, and I don’t gatekeep the good stuff.
I’m sarcastic, I swear like a sailor, and I have a weird addiction to learning. I’ll openly admit when I don’t know something — then turn around and figure it out because I believe every day is a chance to grow. I’m basically a walking encyclopedia of random knowledge, and if I don’t have the answer? Give me a minute. I’ll find it.
I believe in treating people how I want to be treated — or better — and I’m definitely a workaholic when it comes to my business. There’s always one more thing I could be doing to make this space better for you.
I’ve also got a passion for true crime, history (fun fact: I almost became a Holocaust historian… until I realized I also needed to pay the bills), and all things spooky, paranormal, and spiritual. I’ll be the first to tell you to realign your chakras, set out your moon water, and recharge your crystals… but I’m equally open to all walks of faith and belief.
Bottom line? I’m just a messy, passionate, weird, driven, brutally honest human building a life — and a business — where people can feel seen, heard, empowered, and a little more confident in their skin.
WHY DID I START THIS?
Because I got tired of people feeling like they had to hide the hard stuff.
Tired of the stigma around intimacy, around grief, around sex, around bodies that don’t fit the picture-perfect mold.
Tired of watching people — especially those living with illness or trauma — feel like they’re broken or “too complicated” to experience joy, connection, and confidence.
But let me be even more real with you…
I also started this because I’ve been that person. The one who felt like their story, their body, their past, their health struggles… made them “too much” or “not enough” at the same time. I’ve walked through heartbreak, loss, chronic illness, grief, and a lifetime of trauma that would make most people buckle. And you know what? It didn’t break me — but it sure as hell changed me.
I started this space because no one should have to navigate that journey alone. Because we deserve spaces where we can talk openly about intimacy, desire, relationships, and healing — even when it’s messy. Especially when it’s messy.
And I started this business because I know that feeling sexy, empowered, and connected isn’t about perfection — it’s about permission.
Permission to feel good in your body.
Permission to embrace pleasure, confidence, and self-expression.
Permission to rewrite your story
without shame, without apology, without waiting for someone else’s approval.
This isn’t just about products. It’s about helping people — people like you, like me — reclaim their confidence, their fire, and their voice… one bold conversation at a time.
WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT HERE:
✔ Real, raw blogs about relationships, intimacy, and navigating life with chronic illness
✔ Practical resources and tips (with zero judgment)
✔ Product spotlights to help you feel bold, connected, and a little bit badass
✔ Occasional chaos, humor, and dog/cat cameos (because let’s be real… they run my life)
✔ A whole lot of community, support, and reminders that you are enough — exactly as you are
And let me add this…
This isn’t just a business — it’s a living, breathing space for real people. You can expect messy, honest, unscripted conversations. You can expect me to show up as I am — sometimes with coffee in hand, hair a mess, pets climbing on me mid-video — because this space isn’t about being polished. It’s about being real.
You can expect resources that meet you where you’re at — whether you’re thriving, surviving, or somewhere in between. You can expect products that I stand behind because I believe in them — things that make you feel good, confident, playful, and empowered.
And most of all?
You can expect to be welcomed exactly as you are. No filters. No pretense. Just real conversations, real empowerment, and real community.
Thanks for being here. Let’s shake things up.
Stay bold, stay real — and welcome to my world.
— Ashley Jo 💋
P.S. Got a topic you want me to tackle? Whether it’s chronic illness & sex, grief & intimacy, or just life behind the scenes — drop me a message. Nothing’s off the table here.